Mommy and I will never be able to recover from the loss of you. My Dad was in love with life. He often told me that life should be a party. He was always smiling and joking and those of you that knew him, knew what an infectious laugh he had, a laugh that could only be his. I've never known anyone else that could strike up a conversation with a stranger anywhere he went and that could make anyone feel important. I can't count the number of times someone who had just spoken to him briefly would say what a great guy he was. To know my dad was to love him. He had wisdom,compassion, a sense of humor, class and what an unbelievable personality. He took such pleasure in small things like sitting on the deck with a glass of wine and his dog looking at the lake, watching a thunderstorm, or going grocery shopping.There wasn't a week that went by that he didn't remark on how happy he was. He was a gentleman in every sense of the word and could enjoy a hot dog on the boardwalk or a gourmet meal at the finest restaurant. As far as a father, I couldn't have wished for a better dad. Since I was a little girl my dad always talked to me like a person.My dad is my biggest inspiration, my hero, and I would not be where I am today without him. He has made uncountable sacrifices for me, all without ever asking for anything in return. And what he has taught me could never be learned from a book. My dad and I were so close, we could have conversations that lasted for hours. I could talk to him about anything. I love him more than words can say, and I truly don't know what I'll do without him. God blessed me to have given me my dad, even if it was for a short time. To lose him is the greatest loss of my life. I am proud to say that he is my dad and I only hope that I can continue to make him proud of me. Speaking for my mom, she has truly lost her best friend. As a couple, my mom and dad were inspirational to other couples. Their love was evident to anyone ever in their company. They never had to do anything special, they were happy just to be with each other. Their relationship was full of such love and laughter, it made you smile just to see them together. And if soul mates do exist, then they were most certainly soul mates. My dad often told me that my mom is the love of his life and I know my mom feels the same. It is difficult to even put into words the tremendous loss she has suffered. Finally, to those friends and family that have offered support, help and love to my dad, please know that he appreciated all of you more than words can say. He often talked about your generosity and kindness. On behalf of my dad, my mom and myself we truly thank you. |